It’s been a rollercoaster……….…..but it’s all part of my journey
I am a firm believer (now) that everything that happened to me, was actually happening for me……..to get me to this point of being the best version of me, so that I could help other women. It is good to look back on my party lifestyle now and think what a great time I had, until it stopped being fun! We need the low vibrations to really appreciate the up-levels that follow after this! My low times far outweighed the highs until I reached 40.
Stopping drinking in 2018 was just the start…..
I truly believe that being coached changed my life. I had tried modern day therapy & support groups for anxiety, depression, panic attacks, addiction, yo-yo dieting, binge-eating, chronic fatigue syndrome, fertility issues, toxic relationships (narcissistic abuse), redundancy & breakdown of relationships/divorce. I did overcome a lot on my own, but I still never felt calm, at ease, fully me, I believed I was un-dateable and only ever attracted unavailable men or toxic relationships, until I embarked on a massive journey with some amazing coaches over the next 2 years & then found my spiritual connection.
Deep down I have always been a loving, kind person, but due to limiting beliefs and learned behavior I didn’t know who I really was. I didn’t know my true values, I couldn’t make decisions, I couldn’t be single, I didn’t know how to be happy. There were so many times that I just felt ‘off’, I would analyse why I could be feeling that way, read more books, watch more podcasts, labelled myself with something else wrong.
In 2019, the Universe put a coach on my path who I embarked on a 12 week relationship course with. I was going to find my soulmate within the year, the men I started dating were nice, available men - This was a major shift! I didn’t find ‘the one’, but I found the best love I could have - I started to love me! Then the global pandemic hit - great timing for singletons looking to date, not! So I took this gift from the Universe and decided for the first time in my life to stay single! During 2020 I worked with 2 other coaches chipping away at my old beliefs & fears, diving deep into my relationship history.
In 2021, I really found my spiritual connection. I did an online coaching program and tapped into my intuition, threw away the scales and started to intuitive eat to get fit and healthy. I manifested my ideal job after redundancy and doubled my salary the day after signing up to work with my first 1:1 spiritual coach. I also became a man-magnet with men literally knocking on my door. I now have a loving, secure, honest relationship with a kind, caring, available man and we have our beautiful miracle baby girl, after I had previously had 4 rounds of IVF & 4 miscarriages.
For me, self love, coaching & the Spiritual tools are what keep me from falling back into addictive patterns, out of anxiety & depression & ensure I am always living my best life….the new way of thinking always gives me hope for the future even when things are sent to ‘test’ me.
I always operate from a place of love now, but with that comes strong boundaries, lots of self care, lots of manifesting & an absolute love for those I want in my beautiful life!
I have worked with some amazing women to gain the confidence to trust men again after leaving toxic relationships, others that have not dated for years to feel excited about online dating, helped some manifest their ideal job which fits better with their love-life, supported those that felt that unhealthy habits were holding their lives back to remove these blocks & attract their ideal relationships, improve boundaries with family members and release money blocks…..Most of all they have found massive self love!
When you put aligned action in the Universe sends you what you want. If any of this resonates with you, give me shout, I would love to help you cut out the slow, often painful process that I went through for 20+ years……..let’s get your spiritual connection buzzing and watch the gifts unfold.
Lots of Love,